Comments on: Just the same http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/2009/04/13/just-the-same/ A child with Cerebral Palsy is just as sweet as any other. Losing a child, is another matter altogether. Thu, 17 Dec 2009 18:02:00 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Nelba http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/2009/04/13/just-the-same/#comment-1306 Nelba Wed, 22 Apr 2009 21:04:01 +0000 http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/?p=472#comment-1306 Thanks Lisa. I really enjoy being friends on FB! Susan, thanks for your sensitive and heartfelt comment - as always. I often think of you and wonder how you are. Your baby girl must be getting big.. Carina, so true. Thanks Lisa. I really enjoy being friends on FB!

Susan, thanks for your sensitive and heartfelt comment – as always. I often think of you and wonder how you are. Your baby girl must be getting big..

Carina, so true.

]]> By: Carina http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/2009/04/13/just-the-same/#comment-1305 Carina Tue, 21 Apr 2009 12:43:46 +0000 http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/?p=472#comment-1305 In all honesty...I am dreading an anniversary - I don't like being reminded, and at the same time I hate forgetting. I can't believe it has been so long though... In all honesty…I am dreading an anniversary – I don’t like being reminded, and at the same time I hate forgetting. I can’t believe it has been so long though…

]]> By: Susan, Mum to Molly http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/2009/04/13/just-the-same/#comment-1304 Susan, Mum to Molly Fri, 17 Apr 2009 03:48:28 +0000 http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/?p=472#comment-1304 Dear Nelba I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are going in the lead-up to the anniversary and thoughts of "this time two years ago"... I can't believe it is two years already. If someone had asked me when Loren passed I would have said 'last April'... I'm also sorry that you have been unwell, but am glad that you are feeling better... And have more energy! I think of you, and Carina, often - as: those amazing mums in South Africa, who manage to go on without their children by their sides. A world away, but with you in spirit, Susan, Mum to Molly PS: I know exactly what you mean by being unsure about how to spend the 26th - I'm always the same with 'Molly's anniversary'. For us the important thing is not what we do on that day, but that we are together as a family. The day will be what it will be - filled with memories. Dear Nelba

I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are going in the lead-up to the anniversary and thoughts of “this time two years ago”…

I can’t believe it is two years already. If someone had asked me when Loren passed I would have said ‘last April’…

I’m also sorry that you have been unwell, but am glad that you are feeling better… And have more energy! I think of you, and Carina, often – as: those amazing mums in South Africa, who manage to go on without their children by their sides.

A world away, but with you in spirit,

Susan, Mum to Molly

PS: I know exactly what you mean by being unsure about how to spend the 26th – I’m always the same with ‘Molly’s anniversary’.

For us the important thing is not what we do on that day, but that we are together as a family. The day will be what it will be – filled with memories.

]]> By: Lisa http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/2009/04/13/just-the-same/#comment-1303 Lisa Fri, 17 Apr 2009 02:33:35 +0000 http://chocolachillie.wordpress.com/?p=472#comment-1303 Glad to hear your doggies ears are getting better. I ADORE all animals and especially favor dogs! Also glad Marco was able to work through dealing with those feelings of guilt and put them away, hopefully for good! I have two boys and know that when they're hurting, I'm hurting. That's just how it is for moms. Take care and glad we're friends on FB. Lisa Glad to hear your doggies ears are getting better. I ADORE all animals and especially favor dogs! Also glad Marco was able to work through dealing with those feelings of guilt and put them away, hopefully for good! I have two boys and know that when they’re hurting, I’m hurting. That’s just how it is for moms.

Take care and glad we’re friends on FB.

Lisa

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